Remember that no matter what, you don’t deserve abuse and it’s not your fault.
Talk to someone you trust and use the support of your friends, adults, and a counselor to help you heal.
Additionally, only sparse research has been undertaken and therefore few manualized efforts exist to guide the efforts of clinical professionals in developing targeted interventions for the high-risk population of children being raised by mothers with BPD (Skodol & Bender, 2003; Stepp et al., 2012).
In the theoretical model, a child who is genetically vulnerable to the disorder and its related psychopathology is at increased risk from the invalidating experiences transacted within the child-parent relationship (Bandelow et al., 2005).
The moment-to-moment interactions between patient and therapist may be compared to patients with dysthymia, due to intense and often heated exchanges coupled with idealizing and devaluing “flip-flopping” (Conroy et al., 2009).However, there are some parenting styles and characteristics that lend themselves to emotional neglect. Often, if we are experiencing a communication breakdown, or if there is a wall between us and someone else, it most likely has been built with the bricks of invalidation. Mastering it will greatly elevate your emotional intelligence and your of validation to feel good about themselves.First, let me say most parents are well-intentioned and well-meaning and generally do the best they can.Some may have experienced emotional neglect themselves as children, and therefore may not have a lot to give emotionally.It is just that ,sometimes they express it in a wrong manner because of lack of education in relationships and wrong conditioning of their subconscious mind where they give preference to social opinions than the happiness of their kids.