Further, what if the man has absolutely no money for Applebee’s?
What if he works and studies seven days a week to stay afloat?
Our fathers earned far more than our mothers and consistently bought them things they couldn’t buy on their own. Today’s young women are not accustomed to being able to buy themselves more than what they get from their men. Most women gauge a man’s interest by his spending of (a) money or (b) time.
If the guy has no money, how can she see that he deserves a shot?
What is a man without money or time to dote on his woman? A man doesn’t have to spend a whole lot of money to take a woman out on a date.
He doesn’t have to go to Fogo de Chao, he can go to Applebee’s. That sounds great for a couple, but for a man who just met a woman who may or may not even be interested, I think not.
As the divorce rate increases, boys continue to let us down, and sexual trysts with hot men only ever turn into one-night stands; maybe we no longer want to waste our time looking for the love our parents never found.
Today’s young men are not accustomed to being broke when compared to women. The presumption is that she (a) doesn’t have a horse, and (b) she wasn’t going anywhere in the first place or wherever you were going was much better. What if riding off with you will lower her standard of living?
Online dating has become a tremendous source of frustration and failure for them.
Many become despondent at the very thought of having to go back online after a relationship ends. On the big screen, they show us men like Tom Cruise's character in the movie, , professing his love with romantic speeches that end in the famous words, "You complete me." Real men show you their love by cutting your grass and giving you their coat when you're cold. Let them open the door for you or change that light bulb you can't reach. All they want in return is to be appreciated and thanked. He's doing his best and yes, you may be able to do it better or faster than he can but don't. If he has offered to do something for you, allow him to do it his way.
OK this guy I'm talking to has no car, job or money..
I really like his personality and he is attractive.
The last thing they want to do is meet yours before you've even gotten to know each other. Don't try and remodel a man by making him your pet project.