When we've been burned in a relationship, we go into new relationships a little more wary.
The same advice applies if you initially meet online.I pulled these questions from a checklist in my book, where I include three entire chapters to hands-on checklists and inventories about your love life. What are the three most important characteristics to look for in a partner?Men and women have the hardest time with this issue, as they’re usually too focused on sex appeal and personality ‘sparks,’ and focusing too little on the factors that actually matter the most. Learn the early warning signs that someone lacks integrity and construct proper boundaries to keep people like that far from your heart. Know what your values are and be clear about what you're looking for in a relationship. Good relationships start with good decisions, and evaluating your beliefs about relationships and love before you start a relationship is the most important thing you can do.