What I want to do now is to prevent you from making the same stupid mistakes that I made.That’s why I decided to activate parts of my brain that haven’t been used in a while in order to write down all the reasons why women lose respect for men that I wrote down two years ago. Oh, and of course I didn’t cry 😉 Let’s have a look at all the reasons why a girl you are dating could lose her respect for you.It seems inappropriate to post that on normal dating sites.The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.The truth is that if there is a place where women go to specifically meet older men it will probably be filled with women who are either looking for a sugar daddy or benefactor, or with older less desirable women.2) She’s younger and on the hunt for a man who can provide for her on some level because she will know that men who go to a place like that are provider types: easy to take advantage of and desperate. Rejoice in your age and use your age to your advantage.What I didn’t have was the mental strength, the ability and the necessary skills to motivate girls to drop their panties.
That is the only reason why an older woman will chose a younger man over an older man for an adventure between the sheets.Once I realized that I did nearly everything wrong that I could possibly do wrong, I wanted to cry.When I looked at my list it was obvious that I basically forced women to lose respect for me.(even though those same hot young friends probably have fantasies about older guys too!) So they show you they’re interested in subtle ways… I see myself as a lively, bright and sociable girl.